Some people just have the most disgusting fantasies

Sometimes I wish that the gents I meet at, would not tell me their fantasies. I am not trying to be negative or anything like that, but not all of the gents that I date at of have the most pleasant fantasies. As a matter of fact, I think that some of the gents I date at, even have some perverted fantasies.


Why do some people end up with weird or perverted fantasies, and does it mean that they are perverts? I meet my fair share of gents with perverted fantasies at, but I am not sure that they act them out. That being said, there are porn movies which seem to cater for these gents tastes, so there are clearly people who like to act out fantasies similar to the fantasies my gents at have to live with.


Have I ever recommend to any of my gents that they should see a therapist? At first, when I joined, I did not know any therapists, but now I keep a therapist card close to hand at Some of the gents I meet certainly need some help. Most of them don’t want to see a therapist, and they tell me that they would not be comfortable to deal with a therapist. Well, I am pretty sure there are no qualified to deal with their problems, and I am certainly not.


What should you do if you think that you have a fantasy which is some what perverted? If it involves causing harm to, or hurting others, the first thing you should do is to avoid acting out your fantasy. Believe me, I have heard it all at, and you should not feel bad about contacting a therapist. Just like, I am pretty sure that they have heard it all before and will take it in their stride. Remember that therapists are especially trained to deal with problems which can involve perverted ideas, and they will teach you how to think differently. They may even figure out why you have that weird fantasy in the first place. If you can get to the bottom of it, your fantasy may even go away.


If you cannot afford to seek help privately, it is a good idea to speak to your GP. There are plenty of specialist centres within the NHS that can help you. You may have to wait for a while, but you will eventually get some help. If your fantasy does not involve hurting others, it is really okay. But should that kinky fantasy that you like telling your favorite girl at about, turn into something else. It is a good idea to talk to somebody about it. It may not be easy at first, but seeking help is part of the solution. Once you have let go of that fantasy, you need to replace it with positive thoughts, preferably of


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